June #AskLing: Men Are Trash

DEAR LING, So I did my girl wrong and she forgave me but I’m still having trouble forgiving myself. I’ve been doing right by her but it feels like I’m giving her a hollow victory. I want her to be happy, she says she’s happy with me but I feel like idk. Like when a … Continue reading June #AskLing: Men Are Trash

May #AskLing: I’m Looking for Her…

image from hercampus.com DEAR LING,  Me and the dating scene have a love hate relationship. I’m part take whatever comes, part go for what you want, part ion even wanna do this shit. I think I know what I want in a partner (not super sure) but sometimes I objectively reflect on past situations and … Continue reading May #AskLing: I’m Looking for Her…

#AskLing: March Sadness

  March: March Sadness (this month we're doubling up)   DEAR LING, I've had a side nigga for 2 years now (We "talked" for a year and a half before we started f*cking). Been with my dude for 5+ years.  About my Side Nigga: He's lowkey a fuck boy lol. Average paying job, waiting for a … Continue reading #AskLing: March Sadness

February #AskLing: Side N*gga Situation

February: Side N*gga Situation   DEAR LING: I been having the same “side-nigga” for about 7 years and now that I’m single (2 years now) he want to argue about what I do with other men but he still doesn’t want to be exclusive with me (since that’s how he became a side nigga in … Continue reading February #AskLing: Side N*gga Situation